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Protect From These 6 Types of Energy Toxic Behaviors

I’m going to outline for you the 6 MAIN types of toxic energy behaviors that people have.

If you know how to spot a toxic energy behavior AND how to recover quickly and easily from it, you can move through your life (and social interactions) sooooooo much easier!

First of all, MOST people have these toxic energy behaviors!

So there is no villainizing here. In fact, if you’ve been through enough ego deaths and dark nights to become radically self aware, I’m sure you can see where you have or have had these toxic energy behaviors yourself.

The reason I am classifying these as BEHAVIORS and not PEOPLE is because no person will demonstrate the same toxic energy behavior in all situations. Most people have a dominant toxic energy behavior but will use a variety of them.

If you look at some of these and say to yourself, “wow this is so old me” then congratulations!

You are ascending and elevating in frequency.

If you look at some of these and say to yourself “oh shyte I’m totally going through this” – I got you! There are remedies at the end of the blog.

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Toxic Energy Behavior #1: The Dumper – Feeder

These people generally have weak energy flow and a severely blocked grounding so they are unable to naturally release all of their own negative emotional energy.

So what do they do? They dump it into the people in their environment. You will notice that MEN are most commonly dumpers.

This is because they have been socialized to not deal with their emotions, but they still gotta deal with them somehow. And that somehow becomes them just dumping all those negative emotions into whoever they can find TO dump them into.

Most of the time the emotional energy they are dumping is shame, insecurity, and anger.

By nature, since Masculine energy is a projective energy and Feminine energy is receptive… men will very often dump all of their negative emotions into the women around them.

Chronic dumpers have a keen ability to detect empath females.

Since what an empath does is DRAW IN energy from their environment acting as energetic purifiers for the world – they make a perfect target for a dumper.

Have you ever felt really BLECK after having sex with a man? He probably shot all his negative funky energy into you that was in his aura.

So, if you ever feel really insecure, shameful, or angry after having a seemingly normal interaction with a man – he likely dumped a lot of his emotional energy into your aura.

Energetic Feeding

Imagine you have a cup full of water. What will happen if you drop a big rock into it?

The water will spill out of course.

If your aura is the cup, and your energy was the water filling up the cup… what is going to happen when a dumper deposits a big chunk of negative energy? *Negative energy is heavy and dense so would have the same effect as a rock.

Well, your energy would spill out of course. Your nice flowing beautiful delicious energy.

This is the energy that the dumper is feeding on.

They are essentially dumping all their low frequency into your energy, pushing out your higher frequency energy and lapping it up for themselves.

The result? You feel insecure & they feel amazing.

*Personal Share Story Time: I dated a man once who had severe anger issues. He repressed his anger but would often dump it into me. Because of this I would regularly have severe outbursts of anger towards him which weren’t typical of me. He would then shame me for my anger outbursts and I would feel shameful about my behaviors. None of this energy was MINE. I was processing HIS energy that he was dumping into my aura.

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Toxic energy behavior #2: The Blaster

Blasters have a really powerful energy system but they do not use it responsibly. Most of the time they have an entity (or entities) on them that amplify the blasting power.

When a person blasts, they send out a surge of energy towards a person that is so powerful it blows open the aura of the person they are directing it at.

Once the persons aura is blown open, they will shoot energetic objects at their victims chakras. (Energetic objects are dense pieces of energy that people throw when they are angry. When you see them in energy, they frequently look like medieval weapons).

For this reason, blasters are people that you never want to make angry.

And they know it! They have the FAFO vibe about them.

You walk on eggshells around an energy blaster because the threat of the energetic damage that will be inflicted is VERY real.

When your aura is blown open, you do not have energy safety.

Your energy can spill out, you can absorb all kinds of outside energy, and entities have easy access to your energetics. The energy objects that are thrusted and embedded into your chakras could result in physical pain in your body since your life force energy cannot circulate to the affected area.

Energy objects damage the chakras, and if a chakra becomes damaged it will adversely affect all areas of your life that the chakra powers.

If a blaster has a high level entity on them inciting them to go around blasting people, it’s because the entity on them is making an easy meal of the persons victims.

Blasters will COMMONLY target HIGH FREQUENCY people.

This is because a high frequency person has more desirable energy for entities to feed on but cannot access easily. So they try to drive a blaster towards a high frequency person in order to get a meal out of them.

If you are a high frequency person and experience this from someone in your life, you definitely want to learn how to repair your aura following a blast, clear out the energy objects, and incorporate some energetic safety practices into your daily life.

*Personal Share Story Time: My Dad was a blaster. Whenever he would get angry, the whole house would fill up with his angry energy that he would blast out. You would want to stay out of his blasting way lest you get hit by one of his energy objects.

I inherited that from him, so in my 20s whenever I would get angry – I would be a blasting! It wasn’t until my Mom (high level empath) gently pointed out to me that when I got angry it would hurt everyone around me, that I became more mindful with the energy I was putting out.

The thing is, I didn’t know my power.

Most of the time people with powerful chakras DON’T know their power. But they are getting f*ked with by people with underdeveloped energetics. So yeah, it’s like a kindergartener starting a fight with Jackie Chan.

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Toxic Energy Behavior #3: The Vamper

Of course you know this one! Everyone knows this one! It’s a common term right? “Oh that person is such an energy vampire!”

Let’s dive a little deeper into it.

There are 3 main types of energetic vampires. ALL energetic vampers will draw your energy through energetic cords.

The needy energetic vampire

This person has weak or damaged chakras and aura so they do not have a lot of personal energy. They also may have entities feeding on their energy constantly depleting them so they NEED energy.

Instead of repairing their chakras and clearing the entities they go about seeking energy sources in other people.

They may also do this with their pets.

These people vamp your energy by being reeeeeeaaaaaallllly needy of your attention. Because where attention goes, energy flows. So if you are giving them a lot of attention, you are giving them a lot of your energy.

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The poor me energetic vampire

This person vamps energy by being the victim. They have structured their identity around being a victim and have a keen ability to seek out those who have weak boundaries and tend to be over-givers.

They have a bit of a dumping thing going on too because they will dump all of their ‘poor me’ energy into their victim with a message that it is somehow the victims responsibility to make it all better for them. They might even dump shame into you if you don’t concede to their expectations in an attempt to manipulate you.

Sadly, no matter how much you do for this person, it will never make it better for them. They don’t want things to be better. They want ENERGY.

No matter how much energy they are able to get from the people around them, it will NEVER BE ENOUGH. Because outside energy will not provide what they need. What they need is to restore their OWN energy.

It is also possible that there is an entity on them driving their behaviors to feed the entity.

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The Thief Energy Vampire

This person steals energy however they can.

  • They will talk to you and talk to you and talk to you and you cannot get a word in edgewise or get away.
  • They will attempt to steal your image or identity by emulating you in ways that don’t feel like a compliment.
  • They will ALWAYS have some creative drama that requires your full attention and/or assistance that comes with an entitled sense of expectation.

A very common tactic with energy thieves is to enlist the help of others for stealing your energy.

They will often use this as punishment if you don’t satisfy their energetic thievery.

*Personal Share Story Time: I knew a man who was a dumper feeder energy thief. He felt entitled to my time and attention. When I set a boundary, he went around talking trash about me to everyone he knew and then told me that everyone agreed with him that I was being a shitty person for not letting him have as much attention from me as he wanted. The attempt was to dump shame into me to motivate me to give him my ENERGY.

Toxic Energy Behavior #4: The Controller

The controller will use energetic cords to seek to modify your behavior. There will always be two cords, one for drawing energy and one for dumping energy.

Crown Chakra Control Cords: They draw the energy you have for your CONNECTION to your worldview, and dump all of the viewpoints they want for you to have through these cords into your mind.

Third Eye Chakra Control Cords: They want to control how you SEE them or a situation so will cord your third eye chakra and steal your energy you have to think for yourself and replace it with the energy of what they want you to think to override your own point of view.

Throat Chakra Control Cords: They want to override your inner VOICE so they will cord your throat chakra so they become the dominant voice of ‘truth’. They also cord your throat chakra in an effort to prevent you from saying anything they don’t want to hear and will dump shame blocks into your throat chakra to silence you from speaking your truth.

Solar Plexus Chakra Control Cords: They want to have full control of your POWER and mobility so they cord your solar plexus to steal your personal power and dump into it restrictive energy to block you from being in your own power.

Sacral Chakra Control Cords: They want to have full access to your SEXUAL energy and confidence, so they will cord your sacral to steal your sexual energy and dump insecurity and shame.

Root Chakra Control Cords: They want to control your SURVIVAL so they cord your root chakra and steal your energy of abundance will dumping fear into you that you will not be okay without them.

*Soapbox Moment* People who judge women for staying in abusive relationships do not understand the degree that the woman is being held energetically hostage by their partners. They truly do not have the energetic strength or ability to leave their abuser due to this. However, if the woman were to achieve energetic recovery and safety, it would be much easier for her to take the action steps needed to remove herself from the situation.

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Keep In mind

Controllers might use a blast to blow out your aura and then have more easy access to cord whichever chakras they are seeking to control. Because remember, your aura is layers of your energy field which will protect your chakras, but if it is open, then anything can easily access your chakras.

*Personal Share Story Time: My second husband was a blaster control corder. He would blast me with his anger and then cord EVERY SINGLE ONE of my chakras in one episode. It’s like he always knew when I had fully recovered from it, because he would blast and cord again.

Toxic Energy Behavior #5: The Influencer

Have you ever seen a relationship where one person seems as if they are under the spell of another person? Or under absolute dominance and control of another person but in a very covert type of way?

You might scratch your head and wonder why or how this could happen.

The influencer is a very strategic form of toxic energy behavior.

The influencer essentially moves their energy into the other person. It’s much more effective than the controller, takes less effort on the part of the influencer, and is tricky to spot.

By the time the influencer has moved in, the victim doesn’t have the capacity to recognize themselves anymore and can even feel gratitude or dependance on the influencer.

How is the influencer able to move their energy into their victim?

Influencers have a very specific form of prey. They target people who are already ‘out of their chakras’ as a result of trauma, injury, or prior abuse. Hence, they make easy opportunities for the influencer to move in.

Generally, the influencer presents themselves in a ‘helping’ role.

And in their mind, they might actually believe they are helping the person. They posture an attitude of superiority over the person they are ‘helping’ and act as the influence they are exerting over their victim is for their victims ‘own good’.

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Imagine if your energetic system was a house with 7 rooms. And you are only living in 1 of those rooms. The other rooms would be vacant, and easy for anyone who takes advantage to move on in along with all of their ‘stuff’.

This is what happens with the influencer.

Sometimes, the influencer will dump their energy into the victims chakras over time to the point where the person is pushed out of them. Once this happens, the influencer has now fully taken over.

*Personal Share Story Time: My Mom was an influencer. She moved in with me after I divorced my first husband so she could help me with the house and the kids. She cooked, cleaned, shopped, took care of my kids. It was an awesome arrangement since I was able to focus on college and work. BUT she completely took over my house, my kids, and MY decision making for my life even around my personal relationships, social life, and how I spent my money.

It’s important to note that her intentions weren’t necessarily malicious, but they WERE invasive and self serving on her part. And because of her influence, I was being undermined, blocked, and restricted in my ability to live my purpose and experience fulfillment due to the fact that I wasn’t able to live from my OWN energy within my OWN sovereignty.

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Toxic Energy Behavior #6: The Programmer

The Guides are saying that programming is the most challenging of all the toxic energy influences to spot and remedy. Programs you have received sit deeeeeep in your subconscious blind spots.

They are the most insidious of all the toxic energies because they are so subversive.

Toxic Energy Programs are delivered through Verbal Statements with Energetic Packages connected to them. They embed into your energetics and STAY there.

What the programmer does is deposit a ‘program’ of frequency information into their victim which is designed to stay embedded and forever influence the persons thoughts, emotions, and decision making.

Children are very susceptible to toxic energetic programming from authority figures and peers since their energy is in a state of openness TO BE PROGRAMMED while they are open to learning about their environment.

You experienced programming from authority figures in your early life which is STILL influencing your ability to feel worthy, confident, capable, accepted, or successful. The question is, how much of it was supportive programming, and how much of it was toxic?

We all experience programming from our culture and our society to various degrees. Again, the question is how much of it is supporting, and how much of it is toxic?

Prejudice is an example of toxic energetic programming that children receive from authority figures in their early life.

But to bring it in to a micro level where we are focusing on individual toxic energy behaviors you may encounter in daily life, a programmer seeks to insert a frequency into yours that will alter your thoughts, emotions, and life in a negative or limiting way.

Why do they do this? What’s the motive?

Reasons why people program:

  • To impart a long lasting form of influence
  • To perpetuate the lifespan of a program they themselves carry
  • To prevent you from growing out of their influence

Some programs carry within them a requirement of perpetuity. Meaning that there is an obligation built within the program to KEEP IT AND PASS IT ALONG!

I know, it’s nuts.

Here are some examples of societal programming with perpetuity:

“Choosing to be an artist means you will likely be broke.”

“Women who choose multiple intimate partners are sluts.”

“Racism & Prejudice.”

“If you drop out of high school you have no future.”

“The government wants to protect you.”

You get the idea.

*Personal Share Story Time: I recently told a ‘friend’ of mine that I received information that my property was worth a lot more then I purchased it for. His reaction? He said “you will NEVER get that for your property.” Some friend huh? He was trying to deposit a program into my energetics to limit me. I haven’t spoken to him since. I don’t owe him an explanation. I refuse to expose myself to toxic energy programmers. Period.

Another example: A client of mine confided in me that when she was a teen her godfather told her she would never get married. She said she always felt like that statement he delivered has influenced her ability to attract a husband. On a subconscious level she accepted it, and has lived her life according to that programmed belief.

One more example: When I was in my 30s, I was dating a guy who was really threatened of my ex. He always told me that if I ever entertained notions of going back to my ex, he would be grossed out by me forever. This was his energetic program of manipulating me away from my ex using shame. Ironically, this boyfriend was always cheating on me with HIS ex. Go figure.

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Remedies

You don’t think I would tell you about all the damage that these toxic energy behaviors could cause without offering you remedies, would you?

I got remedies for you!

In fact, after having been a professional healer for over a decade, I’ve had opportunity to observe and learn the best course of action in all of these situations.

Remedy for The Dumper

If you have been energetically dumped on, you will need to clear out that energy so it’s not weighing down your aura and cloggin up your chakras.

The best way to go about clearing the energy dumps is to ground it into the earth and bless and send home outside energy in your energetics which don’t belong to you.

You can affirm “I bless and send home all outside energy in my energetics which does not belong to me.” THREE TIMES to get the best results.

You can also do something that I call Angel UPS and it’s where you just imagine you are boxing up all the energy in your aura that doesn’t belong to you and request of your Angels to please pick it up and clear it and return it to whom it belongs.

If you feel like it’s REALLY bad, bust out your sage or palo santo (or whatever you got) and burn it around your aura to loosen it up. You can even try to manually grab those dense spots of heavy dumped energy out of your aura and send it into the earth or dissolve it with golden (not white!) healing light.

Don’t forget to call home your personal energy after getting all of their energy out of your aura! Ask your Angels to retrieve it for you and clear it before you take it back into your energetics. Be sure to do some protection following this work.

If you feel like you could use some frequency support or if it’s not budging, you can get my short yet potent healing videos for 2 function grounding and release and retrieve. Just listening to it will amplify your healing efforts.

After doing these steps, if you don’t get a shift, you will probably need to do some entity attachment clearing since they will sit on dumped energy and block it from clearing.

And if you STILL don’t feel better after all of that, you probably need a session with me.

Six Steps to Remedy Energy Damage from Toxic Energy Behaviors

The steps are essentially the same for repairing and restoring your energy after having experienced energy damage from these toxic energy behaviors.

Step 1: Clear Entities & Attachments

Step 2: Two Function Grounding

Step 3: Clear Energetic Cords

Step 4: Aura Repair

Step 5: Release & Retrieve

Step 6: Energetic Protection

If you feel like you could use a helping hand, you can schedule with me directly from my calendar.

Remedy for being Damaged by Influencer Toxic Energy Behaviors

For the Influencer, you will want to do all of the steps above BUT you will also want to take steps to re-claim your own personal chakras and energy space.

Because if you don’t, someone or something else will move right into that space after you’ve succeeded in moving the Influencer energy out of it.

For this, I recommend doing the Chakra Healing Astral Vision Journeys. This is a healing visualization journey that is a protocol the Angels & Guides have given me for use with my clients in assisting them in reclaiming their personal energy.

Remedy for Clearing Energetic Deposits from The Programmer

Imagine someone went into your house and hid 100 little needles everywhere. That’s what it’s like with these programs except it’s more like thousands of little needles deposited into various areas and layers of your energetics.

You will want to do all 6 steps outlined above and then do this additional step:

Ask your Angels to show you all the energetic programs that others have placed on you in the form of an image of needles to represent all of these embedded programs.

It’s probably a LOT of needles. Dissolve all the needles with Golden Energy or ask your Angels to help you with their Angel healing energy and just saturate them all until they are dissolved.

If there are any that haven’t dissolved, ask your Angels if they would please help you with clearing them.

Remember… what you see is what you are at READINESS to clear. It doesn’t mean it’s all of it. So you can do this exercise again and again and keep finding more.

Once the needles are cleared, your personal power that has been pinned down by these needles is now freed for you to recover.

Ask your Angels to bless & reset all of your power that is now freed and call it back into your Aura.

It’s wise to do this in increments so that you don’t overwhelm your psyche or physical body as it will need to integrate all of your energy which has been freed up and reclaimed.

Did you get a shift? Be sure to drink some water and stretch.

Just remember…

Again, I want to emphasize that these are all toxic energy behaviors that are taking place on subconscious levels.

Most people aren’t aware they are doing them. And having these behaviors doesn’t make a person bad.

Very often these behaviors are a symptom that a persons energetic system is damaged and compromised. They are operating from a state of energetic survival in the only way they know how.

I know this with certainty because I used to clear people on the DL that would exhibit these behaviors towards me and witness the shift in how they were showing up. I wouldn’t recommend clearing people on the DL though, I got in trouble with my Guides for that lol. But I did learn so much from the experience that I can share with you!

These toxic energy behaviors that people have are a result of a society that live unaware of their own personal energy bodies and personal energetics.

Which is why I am so passionate about sharing all of my hard earned expertise with you.

So Much Love & Blessings,

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  1. This article is so informative, empowering and waaaaayyyy helpful~the clarity with which you identify and describe the toxic behaviors as well as the tools and processes to clear, repair and reclaim our own energies/energetics is such a great blessing!!!

    I’m sooooo grateful for you, your wisdom and willingness to share

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